Do not withhold your mercy from me, Lord; may your love and faithfulness always protect me.
This Christ-centered blog is designed to serve stroke survivors, families and friends, through sharing experience and faith. My own stroke came on May 8, 1998. God provided medical professionals, friends, fellow believers, and strength to get me through some struggling recovery times.
Tuesday, January 27, 2015
'May your love and faithfulness always protect me'
Tuesday, April 08, 2014
An update one week out
Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer.
This is my week anniversary of surgery, and while I can tell my knee problem was fixed, it's still sore and swollen. In other words, fairly normal recovery.
Now, it's a matter of patience. I am not patient person in many ways. I want instant relief, instant fix, instant recovery.
Of course, the world seldom operates that way. Instead, we wait for relief, we sit and try to fill our time for fixes, we spent hours, days, weeks, months and more for recovery. But Paul gave some great advice to his fellow believers in Rome.
We don't always have control - indeed, we seldom have control - over time and recovery. Certainly, there are often - not always, but often - ways to smooth our path for recovery. There are many, many well-trained health professionals who can help. And in many instances, using patience will bring about more lasting recuperation.
So in my recovery, I do pray that I can be joyful in hope, patient in my affliction, and faithful to pray.

Thursday, January 02, 2014
'Do not be anxious about anything'
Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
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Paul gave valid guidance to the Philippians. Instead of worrying, bring your issues to God. Now, did Paul say that's the only thing to do? No. It is, though, the first thing to do.
And recently, I saw stories that anxiety is linked to higher long-term risk of stroke:
The greater your anxiety level, the higher your risk of having a stroke, according to new research published in the American Heart Association journal Stroke.
The study is the first in which researchers linked anxiety and stroke independent of other factors such as depression. Anxiety disorders are one of the most prevalent mental health problems. Symptoms include feeling unusually worried, stressed, nervous or tense.You might say that Paul was way ahead of his time in giving stroke prevention advice. Follow it!
Tuesday, November 13, 2012
'The door will be opened'
"So I say to you: Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened."God wants the persistent prayer. People pray all the time, but persistent praying is not the norm.
Just before the verses above, Jesus tells how you might open your own door to a friend who persists knocking, even late at night.
So when you pray, don't stop at once or twice - pray with persistence.
Wednesday, June 23, 2010
A refreshing find...
Among other hits, a Prayer for Strength After a Stroke:
...Grant them strength and hope
to envision new days ahead...
(Image from eHow.com)
Wednesday, February 17, 2010
On this Ash Wednesday, prayers for stroke survivors...
Remove the sudden fear that befalls them.As Lent begins, a time to meditate the suffering and death of Jesus, we can pray, too, for others suffering.
Endow them with courage in the struggle
to recover what has been lost.
Thursday, June 18, 2009
'Joyful ... patient ... faithful'
Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves. Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer.
"Be joyful in hope ... ."
Paul went through some dreadful, awful, torturous experiences during his ministry. But again and again, he wrote about hope.
I can't imagine the life Paul had - he turned turned from society's "in" crowd and took the path of the often persecuted. Perfect? No. But that was not required for Paul and it's certainly not required for Christ followers.
So when human afflictions seem overwhelming, I hope you can find comfort in Paul's writings. He, too, was afflicted but found peace.
Friday, May 08, 2009
A note in passing...
Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.It happened 11 years ago today. At least, that's when it happened to me.
On Friday, May 8, 1998, I found myself hit by a stroke working with a colleague who was smart enough to get me some help. The rest, as you might say, is history.
I was a devoted distance runner at the time and remain so. I will likely run 10 miles without stopping tomorrow (Saturday). Why do people run? Now, for me, it's an act of worship, thanking God that he gave me two strong legs - one of them twice.
This blog is my feeble attempt to provide help for fellow stroke survivors and those who care for them - in any capacity. I've prayed for those who have contacted me or I've heard about concerning their own circumstances or struggles. Anyone reading this can e-mail me anytime - jeff.porter@gmail.com - and you'll be in my prayers, too.
Do I completely understand what happened those 11 years ago? No. But as Paul wrote to the Philippians, God's peace surpasses understanding - leaving me under God's protection. It's there for you, too.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009
A special no-more-hole-in-the-heart story
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
North Korean leader and prayer
The news (below video) is that North Korean leader Kim Jong Il survived a stroke. It's unclear at this writing how serious the stroke or the exact status of his condition.
I've been to South Korea a couple of times. It's a country rich with smart and kind people.
Ran across an interesting blog today: North Korean Prayer Blog. The prayer for Kim:
Let us pray that Kim Jong Il will be awakened to his own mortality and be brought to repentance and experience the Grace of God and turn to Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior.
Kim has persecuted people of faith. Is it likely that will change? Who's to say? We can, however, hope.
Friday, December 29, 2006
Uncle Jimmy - thanks for the lives you touched
His stroke happened a few years ago, and he's never been the same. His speech coherency would come and go. He'd get lost. For his own safety and health, he moved to a nursing home back in October. Several days later, a heart attack took him from us.
Family members gathered in Texas for his funeral services, and we all heard different stories about how he affected their families and lives.

Without Uncle Jimmy, chances are I would never have been there.
Business took me to Seoul, where I did some journalism training for a large news organization. My background is newspaper work, which started in 1976 as a lowly darkroom technician. That interest was sparked when Uncle Jimmy gave my family some hand-me-down darkroom equipment and books. I was hooked on photography, which led me to that part-time job, which led later to full-time newspaper work, a move to reporting and editing, and finally to a position where I conduct training for professional journalists across the United States and beyond.
Funny how lives can be touched -- Uncle Jimmy helped me awaken an interest in journalism. Others continued that interest in countless ways. How many lives do we touch every day -- intentionally or unintentionally? My prayer is that the lives I touch professionally or personally benefit and reach out for other lives.
The cross in the above photograph seems strangely at home surrounded by razor wire. It reminds us of the suffering Christ endured for you. And it reminds me of Uncle Jimmy, too, with his suffering lifted and, thanks to his influence, the photo taken.
Sunday, September 24, 2006
Video games and prayer
According to a story from Reuters, researchers designed video "games" to improve stroke survivors' hand control:
According to Kira Morrow from The State University of New Jersey, Piscataway, and colleagues, the system consists of a modified Xbox that runs the training exercises, a virtual reality gaming glove that measures finger flexion and wrist position, a color monitor, and an Internet connection to a laptop used in software development.
Cost is cheap: $549, compared with more traditional systems that can run more than $17,000.
Personally, my hand control came back fairly quickly, although to this day my fine motor skills are not quite what they used to be. But the Xbox story reminded me of my own use of some of my daughters' "educational" toys to regain speaking and writing skills.
With all the complaints -- many completely justified -- about violent and distasteful video games, they can also give a hand to stroke victims.
Sunday, April 02, 2006
You can't control for God
Intercessory prayer itself had no effect on complication-free recovery from CABG (coronary artery bypass graft), but certainty of receiving intercessory prayer was associated with a higher incidence of complications.The study used about 600 people who were told they were going to be prayed for, and about 1,200 people were told they might or might not be prayed for. Of those, about 600 were prayed for by strangers in one of three Christian groups. The others weren't prayed for among those groups. The results:
In the two groups uncertain about receiving intercessory prayer, complications occurred in 52% (315/604) of patients who received intercessory prayer versus 51% (304/597) of those who did not ... . Complications occurred in 59% (352/601) of patients certain of receiving intercessory prayer compared with the 52% (315/604) of those uncertain of receiving intercessory prayer ... . Major events and 30-day mortality were similar across the three groups.While the study focused on heart patients, stroke patients have an interest, too. As someone who was prayed for and recovered, I'd say that among the newspaper stories about this, The Christian Science Monitor's Gregory M. Lamb gave it the best perspective:
The results of a long-awaited scientific study aimed at measuring the effect of third-party prayer for hospitalized patients not only did not match the expectations of those conducting the study, but also may have raised more questions for researchers than it answered. Among them: Can even the most carefully designed trial measure prayer's effects?A good question, all right. Those who believe will continue to pray. Those who don't believe will use the study as ammunition against both the type of prayer studied -- those done by strangers, and only for 14 days -- and, often, other types of prayer as well.
For example, the blog GetReligion.org offers from insight from regular contributor Mollie Ziegler:
I like the last one, too. Consider it this way: Researchers can't control for God; God controls us....Rob Stein in the Washington Post:
Praying for other people to recover from an illness is ineffective, according to the largest, best-designed study to examine the power of prayer to heal strangers at a distance.
... (I)t makes it seem like the study proves all prayer is ineffective — which is much more broad than the study itself purports.
Anyway, I know the unemployed, sick and dying at my church will still be prayed for. Speaking of lead paragraphs, this satirical one made me laugh:
A team of scientists today ended a 10-year study on the so-called “power of prayer” by concluding that God cannot be manipulated by humans, not even by scientists with a $2.4 million research grant.